Sexuality

Talking about sex is HARD.
REALLY REALLY hard...

For example,
I remember a time when I was sitting across from another therapist with
My, then, husband.

Now, I'm the kind of guy who will talk about ANYTHING -- You can ASK me anything, you can TELL me anything,
But when it came to serious sex talk with my ex-husband,
I suddenly had nothing to say...

Sadly, we ended up not working out for completely separate reasons,
(Mainly that we were so wildly incompatible that it was a miracle that we lasted as long as we did)
But I think what that particular lesson taught me was that
No matter how shy or confident you are,
No matter who your partner is,
Sex is always a difficult topic to approach.

And that's where I come in.

Since that time, between being gay, being male, providing rehabilitation therapy to people who have committed sexual crimes, and autistically asking questions about sex while on dates,
I've learned WAAAAAY too much about sex.

What I like to tell people is that I've gone so far down the sexuality rabbit hole,
That if a client can tell me about their sexual desires or fears
And if they can tell me about their porn vs. real life interests,
Then I can tell you A LOT about a person's psychology and how to fix it.

What I have to offer as a sex therapist is the support and bravery
To talk about and figure out
Anything that's going wrong with your sexuality.

I'm not going to judge you about what you enjoy
And if I worked with clients facing similar issues,
I'd love to pass along information and what helped
In previous cases
Ranging from sexual anxiety and body image issues
to unwanted fetishes or
Trying to wanting to rekindle things in the bedroom with our partners.

If you want a therapist who is knowledgeable and confident talking about sexuality,
Send me a message to schedule our first consultation

Topics covered:
~Sex / Porn addiction
~Sexual anxiety
~Sexual shame
~Body shame
~Childhood sexual trauma
~Boundary crossings among siblings
~Coming out (as gay, trans, with fetishes to partner)
~Navigating/Understanding fetishes
~Fixing your dating profile
~How to date and how its different in the gay/lesbian/straight community
~Navigating sex on dates

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